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Is It Your Reaction?

August 7, 2011 by Toby Martini Leave a Comment

As you go through your day, any time you experience something “bad,” ask yourself how much of that negative experience comes from your attitude and how much from the situation itself.

In many cases, the attitude shapes the experience. Take control of your attitude and your reactions to experiences.

Don’t let the circumstance dictate your mood or your actions.

You get to be in charge of your own body, thoughts and emotions.

Here’s an example: Have you ever been excited, happy, and going through your day with joy, and all of a sudden, someone says just “The Wrong Thing” and now you’re mad?

The person said whatever they said, and it may have been mean, or spiteful, or whatever it was that irked you. But, if you let that change your mood and attitude about life, you’ve given that person a lot of power over you.

Filed Under: Your Brain

Origin Story

May 25, 2011 by Toby Martini Leave a Comment

The King Who RainedThis is what started it all, people! When I was 6, I got this book, The King Who Rained, and I LOVED it! Ever since then, I’ve spent a LOT of time listening for, when people talk, how can I “take it wrong”? What else could a word mean in that sentence? It’s also a piece of homework that I give to everyone that comes through any of my programs. Look for homonyms, words that sound like other words, and also the same word that may have another meaning.

Mary was anxious to get married. But, John was anxious about getting married.

This a great place to start mining for Improv goodness. AND, for comedy in general. It’s not just for being able to throw out a one-liner or, heaven forbid, a bad pun. But, it’s a chance for you to give your brain some exercise; to think in a way that you normally do not. And, research has shown that doing mental gymnastics helps people stave off dementia and Alzheimer’s. So, keep that in mind. Do this exercise! Watch for way’s to “take something wrong” and make yourself giggle. Once you become facile with it, maybe you can start saying them out loud to people. (And they’ll think you’re funny.) Perhaps when someone says that they “have reservations about your project,” you can ask if that will be a “table for one”? That might not be the best joke ever, but in the spur of the moment, you would make people near you chuckle, lighten the, mood, and give yourself a moment to think about how you will now decide to deal with the naysayer, too. Have fun… always! Bonus Trivia: This book was written by Herman Munster from The Munsters!

Filed Under: Improv, Personal

No news is good news!

May 13, 2011 by Toby Martini Leave a Comment

CONFESSION:

I haven’t watched the news for the past ten years. I don’t read the newspaper either because I don’t want or need to know about all the bad stuff happening around the globe. My life is about creating good stuff.

Do I miss big things? Never. Somehow I stay current to the major happenings in the world. If something grabs me, I can always jump on the net and delve into it.

I do quite fine without the daily reports of the murders, robberies, and accidents that have happened in my town, my country and around the world. I don’t want to know the details and horrors of all that.

It’s not that I am naive and gleefully walking through life ignoring that bad things happen, BUT… the world is filled with both good and bad. And while it is important to be informed about something that might be a danger or have impact on me and mine, I don’t need to be constantly wallowing in the world’s misery.

I want to see the beauty, surround myself with joy, and laugh and enjoy my family, friends, and life!

I know that my life is more joyful, and happier since I quit being deluged with the constant stream of bad news. Who wouldn’t want that?


Eliminate the news media from your life
for the next 30 days and see what I mean.


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I’m excitable!

May 5, 2011 by Toby Martini 2 Comments

I look back over my last 10 posts and notice something interesting… I love exclamations! Six posts have !!, two have ??, and that leaves two that are just titles.

That’s probably a fair ratio for how I write in emails and how I talk, too.

What could that mean?

I’m pretty sure it just means that I’m enthusaistic and energetic.

How about you? You should check on your communications. Are you enthusaistic when you talk to people about your business, your family, your life?


It’s a big part of Improv. Scenes and shows are better when they’re high energy. Of course, they can’t ALL be high energy, but we sure do have a high percentage that lean that way.

And why is that? Because high energy equals fun. You never see a depressed person walking full-tilt. And besides Steven Wright, you don’t see morose comedians.


My recommendation for you: Walk faster this week and use more exclamations in your speech and your writing.

HAVE FUN!
(It’s way more fun than not having fun!)

 

Filed Under: Improv, Personal

Just Do It!

April 30, 2011 by Toby Martini Leave a Comment

I love this speech!
To be completely honest, at first I was a bit annoyed by his voice and his repetition.

But then, a couple of days after first watching it, I heard his voice in my head.
And then again.
And again.

And now, I think it’s genius!

This is the whole speech with intro and all.
I think the very juiciest bit starts at 16:59 right up till the end. It’s 3 or so minutes of excelsior motivation!

If you don’t have time for the whole thing, please jump to that point and be prepared to hear him talking to you for the coming weeks! 🙂

Filed Under: Inspiration, Speaking, Your Brain

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Toby,

I wanted to thank you for the lively, fun, and provocative weeks in your Improv class. I joined with the hope of acquiring skills that would help me become more competent at Table Topics in my Toastmaster Club.

When I started with the Improv class I might have been thinking it was not the best choice for me, I had no aspirations to become an actor! The benefits of the Improv class snuck up on me. The exercises loosen up your mind, make you more confident, and unlock your brain to make you more spontaneous. After one class I made a noticeable improvement on my Table Topic participation.

I am a commission sales rep of critical care medical equipment. The skills I’ve acquired in your class have paid off here as well. I’m more responsive and spontaneous during sales calls. In my opinion, the exercises you use in this class should be a part of every sales training program.

Thanks for a great experience!

Michael Hamlin
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